?* Our site allows you to remain anonymous to other users until you feel ready to provide contact information to other users.

?* Never include your personal contact information in your profile, especially telephone numbers, email, home address or your last name. We have a separate optional form to add this information to make it viewable to specified users.

* Only provide your contact info to another user when your instincts tell you this is someone you can trust.

* Set up an email account just for online dating usage. This makes it easy to quarantine any unwanted mail.

* Keep your passwords confidential and make sure they are not easy to guess.